DOUBLE TAP TO ZOOM WITH PHONE OR TABLET Contents Acknowledgments ix Introduction: Hope in Spite of Brokenness 1 Part 1: Relationships and Reality: What We Feel and What We Live 1 How What We Feel Creates What We Know 2 How What We Feel Builds the Brain 3 How What Surrounds Us Changes Us 4 How What We Experience Shapes Us 7 25 47 63 Part 2: Research and Response: What We Know, What We See, and What We Can Do 5 When Those Who Love Us Hurt Us 6 When Those Who Love Us Leave Us 7 Reenvisioning the Response: Where We Go from Here 121 References 169 Index 177 COPYRIGHTED MATERIAL 87 151